For centuries, male and females have been attracted to hot men. The one thing that remains difficult is how to talk to them to get them to like you. It’s a code that has been tough to crack for years.
We have gathered amazing tips and tricks on how to talk to hot men through various methods and our credible dating experience of men. Yes, we’ve talked to them all. As gay men, our female friends and everything in between. So, this article is not just for women, but for gay men too. That should be enough to keep you around!
Initiating the Conversation
Let’s be honest here, this is the most difficult part of the conversation – starting it! Sometimes, it can be intimidating being around hot horny hunks and thinking of what to say to them and not look or sound dumb.
We get it because we’ve been there before. It’s humiliating approaching a good looking dude, only to find yourself stumbling around your words. Let this be a helping hand to you the next time you approach a hot man.
That’s right, do what you do and be who you are. Everyone will appreciate you being an honest version of yourself and expressing your natural personality. Of course, you’re going to be nervous sometimes – that is totally natural, and you aren’t alone there. However, what hot guys want to see is a real person with real feelings.
Ask Questions About Them
Please, for the love of god do not make this first conversation about yourself. This goes for any relationship. Always show interest in the other person. In fact, you should love trying to get to know him. Ask him questions about who he is and what he likes to do in his spare time.
As the previous point was to ask questions, now it is time to be relatable (as long as you’re honest). In order to mesh with someone, you must have some common interests. Yes, opposites attract, but having things in common sparks up the new beginning! As he is answering your questions, you can keep a mental note of how you are the same. Then, bring up those common interests later in the conversation. Circle back around to it, as they say.
Make Him Laugh
Humor is one of the best ways to break the ice. Getting him to smile is a huge step in the right direction. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to get this done because it should just happen naturally. If it doesn’t, the match made in heaven was not meant to be. You must get him to laugh and have fun while talking to you.
Tell a Story
Storytelling is one of the long lost arts that most of us don’t have the ability to accomplish. However, if you can master it, it is a lethal weapon in the dating world. Tell an amazing story filled with all the emotions, including humor and you can be sure to win his heart over.
Well, there it is folks – a message from our dating professionals. Words of wisdom from the hot guys themselves. Be sure to follow these steps and you will be able to talk to any hot guy out there.